I know, I know Mard ko kabhi dard nai hota but when it comes to say GOODBYE’s the reality is Mard ko sab jagah dard hota hai, why it is always hard to say GOODBYE’s? Whether a male or female everyone get upset when it comes to say Goodbye. I know we males consider ourselves to be belonged to the “Superman family” and it’s against our AAN, BAAN and SHAAN to say that things do not hurt us but the fact is we do get hurt, the problem is with expressing it. But why we feel the pain, let’s try to analyze this with certain multiple factors
Life is short and the world is big- it’s very difficult to find friends who understands you completely on every parameters, the world is so big and the life is so short, so in this short life a lot of time is involved in searching and finding those people who are mad like you and with whom you can share everything. So let’s suppose you spend “N” number of years to search a friend, make him or her compatible according to yourself, make changes in yourself to better suit your friends but then the day comes when you have to say goodbye. So the pain is for all the efforts made in yourself to better suit your friends, sadness is to remember all the good time you shared with them, all the happiness, sorrows, days, nights but then you realize that you have to leave your friends. Friends can also be classified into different category
Good friend- Good friends are those friends which can be categories as “HI, HELLO” types friends, means whether you see them or does not see them it does not matter but whenever you see them you meet them with a happy smile.
Really good friend- These are the friend which are more than a good friend, you share things with them whenever you sit with them.
More than a Friend but less than a boyfriend/Girlfriend-this is the category which knows everything about you and you share those things which you do not share with anyone else.
Boyfriend/Girlfriend- We are not discussing this category today
Mad Category- People in this category are those who gel with you very well, with gestures you can understand what the other is trying to say like the eye contact between two friends after seeing a girl is most probably the signal that the Girl is hot and we both know this. It’s the mad category that hurts the most; you know you will never going to find the same mad people ever in your life, I was fortunate enough to find some really mad guy and the compatibility was awesome.
The another reason to get hurt is the expectations, you know that in future you are not going to feel the same kind of madness, same kind of feelings which you had with this particular person or with the friends whom you are leaving. You know you shared one of the best times of your life with your gang people but what’s hurting is that goodbye’s take the opportunity away to see your friend’s on regular basis. Goodbye’s take away the opportunity to crack jokes, to discuss your life’s problem, to share meals with your bang and takes you to a different journey where you know it is difficult to find the replacement of those mad people. That’s why goodbye’s hurt the most.