Relationships-Complicated???Yes they are..!!
After a long time I am back again with a fresh article that to on relationships.
Relationships now days are getting complicated with people not knowing why they are together, sometimes its lust sometimes its love and sometimes there are no reasons, you just like each other’s company, so let us try to understand these things one by one
The dictionary meaning of the word relationship is
The way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
So we can say that relationship is a word used when two or may be more (you never know) people come together (normally one is male and the other one is female but again you never know) to share things, thoughts, life style and their bodies, but after analysing some relationships closely (some close friends) I finally concluded some points, again as I have said before in my articles that there is nothing right or wrong and everyone should agree to my opinions, But I would like to put forth my point of view
Looks matters to a certain extent and up to a certain age
When we talk about looks we have different parameters for males and females, let’s talk about them one by one
Females who does not like a good looking male with a model like physique, a cute smile, fair skin and other desirable factors that any girl can think of but is not at all understanding, is a male chauvinist, whose future is uncertain, you just can’t trust the loyalty of this guy, so all in all I am analysing a guy on two factors
1) The outer self that deals with looks
2) The inner self that deals with the understanding level of the male
Now let’s divide the females on the basis of age group
1) The teenage (up to 19 or early 20s)
2) Age group after the teenage
Now when we talk about teenage what matters to a girl is the looks and only looks, she never judge the male partner on any other parameters, just want to be in a relationship with the man of her choice, it’s like the atmosphere of a Shahrukh Khan movie with everything becomes pink, violin playing all around and generally teens enters into a relationship very soon, but the love at this age does not last too long because the moment you start living with a guy whom you have chosen solely on the basis of looks, his other characters comes into picture in the long run and female somehow feels that he is not the one that she wants. So relationship ends generally after the end of the school or college life.
Then comes the mature age of the woman, where she judge her partner on certain parameters before entering into a relationship like
● Future Stability
● Stability in the relationship
● Sense of Humour
● Caring factor
● Tolerance factor
Like this there can be many other factors on which a girl judges her partner
Now let’s go and analyse the factors on which a male judge his partner
Do I need to say that it’s the looks, looks and looks, man of any age can fall in love with a girl who is beautiful and knows how to carry herself but that’s for the start, yes that’s for the start only, can a male live with a bimbo in the long term??
No, I don’t think so... because somewhere down the line males are more impressed by the attitude, thinking, intelligence and how she takes up her life.
Every guy loves a girl who is confident, who suggest solution to her partner, who is ready to lead from the front holding the hand of her partner, who have never say never attitude, who not only manage her life bit also the life of her partner
So why relationships comes to an end
The answer is simple; we never know what we want from A relationship, female normally falls in love with a wrong guy and ends up marrying a guy whom her parents has selected for her because it’s hard for her to marry a guy whose character she does not like even though she is in a relationship, many a times it happens that a girl while being in relationship with one but loves the nature of some other guy and thinks of her, now let’s come to the males, if a male is falling in love with a lady on looks factor only than it will not last longer.May be tomorrow that guy will find another beautiful girl who is better than her current girlfriend because what he is looking for is the looks only.
How to make relationship last long
While growing up, I was always narrated a story that a person making the sweets never want to eat his own sweets because he is so bored of eating sweets, same goes for the relationship also, for both male and female, why would I like a partner with the same characteristics as I already possess, it’s the simple logic, opposite always attracts, even in the magnet north south makes an everlasting relationship, so apart from looks try to find out the factors that you want to have in your partner like if you are an introvert, don’t talk that much then finding a girl who is confident and compel you to do the activities that you will never do on your own, takes you to a world which is entirely different from the world to which you are use to then I don’t believe in that case you will judge the girl on the look factor only, that kind of relationship really last long, it’s like finding the missing part in your life and trying to fulfil that part through your partner. So always judge your partner on other factors also apart from looks because there are chances that you enter a relationship where your body is with your partner but your soul, mind and heart is somewhere else, the day you find such a girl or a boy never ever let him/her go because that’s the soul mate for you.
At the end just wants to say that
YOU CAN LICK THE BODY FOR FEW YEARS BUT ULTIMATELY YOU
HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE CHARACTER