LIFE IS ALL ABOUT HAVING A GOOD PLAN
Few Weeks ago I introduce my friend Bhaskar, I learned a lot from him, though his intentions was to have fun only, but the day we all start thinking will be the day we all start growing, but we never give time to our life, I mentioned it many times that our lives are moving at such a pace that we forget to plan it. We all should at the end of the day need to think, what I am doing, where I am going, what I need to do, what are the plans for the future and many more questions. What most of us do is to have a thinking which shows our lack of planning like
“Oh tomorrow is Monday, koi nai jee lenge, marne toh wala nai main, din hi nikalna hai nikal denge.”
( This is the attitude that we people follow, failing to plan your next day itself means that you are following this practice, it’s like hawa ka jhauka (wind of breeze) jidhar ki hawa chali udhar ko beh gaye)
Oh tomorrow is Tuesday, koi nai yaar, maine kaun se Prime mnister se milne jaana hai ya kisi celebrity se jo preparation karu
(But the question is why I am not doing anything so that even these high profile people should also know me and meeting a celebrity does not mean I am running behind them so that they will give me a favour of clicking a picture with me so that I can upload it on my face book account)
Oh tomorrow is Wednesday, koi nai yaar kal toh office mein baithe baithe time pass kar aaunga, idhar udhar ghumkar, dosto ke saath time pass kar lunga.
(That’s what people do, they take their jobs as a liability but one should do the work that one should love to do)
Oh tomorrow is Thursday, yaar weekends ko plan karna hai, life ki planning ho na ho, weekend khrab nai hone chaiye.
(probably the only thing that we planned)
Oh tomorrow is Friday, Kal weekend start hai, waah majja aa jayega, kisi tarah aaj ka din nikal jaaye
Oh next two days are Saturday and Sunday
(Sleeping, eating and party)
This is our life, that’s why we see frustrations in our life, because we fail to plan the real things, I can ask you the same question, what’s your plan from tomorrow and when I ask about your plan, certainly I am not asking about eating, sleeping, drinking and meetings plans, I am asking about the plans that will take you closer to your dreams, to a platform where you always wanted to be. It’s not an easy task, Rome was not built in one day, same way a good Planning needs Practice and Patience. When it comes to learning, I feel that one can learn from anyone, I talked about Bhaskar, he used to say he has to live for 50 years (even though he was joking about it because whenever I said, Bhaskar you need to put more efforts when it comes to studies, he always had this weapon in his hand of living for 50 years), so he wanted to enjoy and live life to the fullest, from there I analyse that he may be saying the truth, if we take the average of the life to be 50 years and today I am 25, that means I have already lived my half life and only have 25 years to fulfil all my dreams, this is scary, because time is less and dreams are big, the moment this feeling comes to your mind that you have very less time left, trust me your mind and body comes into action, you keep on thinking about achieving success, each and every action is towards achieving your dreams. The day we were born to the present day, we have grown in terms of knowledge, physical appearances, and relationships, but we forget that we are also growing in terms of age, we are not here forever. What if I say that tomorrow is your last day on this earth and then see your efforts and acts, but isn’t true that may be tomorrow is actually going to be my last day because life is uncertain. So it’s better to plan well and ahead. It brings a kind of confidence to have a good plan, to see you growing on everyday basis and to be one step closer to your dreams. Life is all about having a good plan for every situation and for good planning to need to be advance in thinking, to judge things well ahead of time. What are your dreams and the kind of plans that is required is your job, I can give you food, but you have to use your own hand to satisfy your hunger.
Let’s end this topic with a live example, we all have seen the game of cricket, there are two kinds of fielders,
1) who run towards the ball to save some run.
2) who keep on standing on his place and wait for the ball to reach him.
Life is also about this, there are people who plan their life well, prejudge the things and act accordingly and on the other hand there are people who wait for the things and then do some actions (which is not so fruitful because you are allowing time to take actions for you and the result can be anything), it’s on you who has to decide in which side you are. Time will wait for no one, jaisa aaj hai vaisa hi aane wala kal hoga, woi 24 ghanta milega, woi situation hogi, woi circumstances honge then why not to act today, why not to start today. I am not saying that you should be agree with me, may be you have different kind of thinking but what’s more important is that time is going, THINK AND ACT
A goal without a plan is just a wish.